DEAR AMY: My husband thinks all guys like sex — and I don’t mind watching him.

Several weeks ago, he said he was going to work that night and I never made it home.

I live with him, but he is a very old-fashioned and very reserved man.

With only one other woman in his life, he is constantly complaining about his family and his condition.

I used to be open and interested in his family, but now I am by myself and keep to myself.

I have never been married, but I have always had a very emotional connection with him, and I just don’t like the lack of intimacy with him.

He feels that I don’t want to hurt his feelings by being alone and is so afraid of him.

We are getting along great, and he is super romantic.

Will my honesty affect his impression that I am a troublemaker and a little icky? How will I convince him I am just a woman who likes to be alone? I don’t like the way he keeps complaining.

I really need some hard love!

Delighted

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